Make Your Attitudes Your Allies

Can You Read Mind? Reading minds is easier than you think. Perhaps you’ve never thought of it, but you read the mind of others and they read your mind, every day. People speak without a sound. How we think shows through in how we act. Attitudes are a mirror of the mind. They reflect thinking.

Grow these three attitudes. Make them your allies in everything you do:

1.The attitude of I’m activated:

To activate others, to get them to be enthusiastic, You must first be enthusiastic yourself. Enthusiasm can make things 1,100 percent better. Two things to do to activate yourself are:

Dig into it deeper. When you find yourself uninterested in something, Keep digging and you’re certain to find some common interest. Keep digging and you will eventually discover a fascinating person.

In everything do, Life it up. Enthusiasm or lack of it, shows through in everything you do and say. Life up your handshaking , when you shake hands, Make your handclasp say, “I’m glad to know you”.Life up your smiles.Smile with your eyes. Nobody likes an artificial, Pasted-on, rubbery smile.Life up you thank you and your talk because when you make a habit of colouring your words with sincere feeling you will notice a great uptake in your ability to hold attention.

2. The attitude of You are important:

Ponder on that. Everyone, yes everyone -your neighbor, you, your partner, your boss- has a natural desire to feel he is “somebody”. It is strongest, compelling and non-biological hunger. Most folks look at another person and think, “He can’t do anything to me. Therefore, he’s not important” but right there is status where people make a basic blunder. The other person, regardless of his or his income, is important to you and for two giant, dollar- and -cents reason:

The first giant reason, make someone feel important, and he cares about you. And when he cares about you, he does more for you.

Second, when you help others feel important, you help yourself feel important too.Praise is power, Invest the praise you receive from your superior. Pass praise on down to your subordinates, where it will encourage still greater performance. When you share praise, other people know you sincerely appreciate their value.

3.The attitude of Service first:

Want to make money? Then get the put service first attitude, As we know money is the power to give your family and yourself the standard of living. Everywhere you see the people with a “money-first” attitude. Yet these same people always have little money. Why? Simple this: People with a money first attitude become so money conscious that they forget money can’t be harvested unless they plant the seeds that grow the money and the seed of money is service. That’s why “put service first” is an attitude that creates wealth because you don’t get a raise on the promise of better performance, you get a raise only by demonstrating better performance. The producer who enjoys the largest profits from the movies puts entertainment ahead of money. Rather than chisel the moviegoer, he does everything possible to give people more and better entertainment then they expect to get, So people like the movie, it gets a good review and it makes money.

Here is a simple but powerful rule that will help you to develop the put-service-first-attitude: Always give people more then they expect to get. Each little extra something you do for others is a money seed, giving customers extra service is a money seed because it brings the customer back.

Programming Yourself For Success

Manage Your Environment:

Our mind is the most delicate and sensitive instrument, the body is what the body is fed. By the same token, the mind is what the mind is fed. Mind food is your environment- all the countless things that influence our conscious and subconscious thought. And this food determines our habit, attitude finally personality. Each of us blessed with some kind of hidden talent but how much we can develop this talent that depends on the kind of mind food we feed it.

Suppressive forces :

The number one obstacle on the road to high-level success is the feeling that major accomplishment is beyond reach. This suppressive force directs our thinking towards a mediocre level.

Psychological sunshine:

Restricting your social environment to the same small group produce boredom, dullness, dissatisfaction. Remember that for success you should be expert in understanding people. Making new friends, join new organization enlarge your social orbit, do select friends who have views different from your own, as a narrow individual hasn’t much future. Associate with opposites but just be sure they are a person with real potential.

Avoid gossip :

It is like thought poison, affects mind not the body. Thought poison is subtle but it accomplishes “big” things. It reduces the size of our thinking by forcing us to concentrate on petty, unimportant things. It wraps and twist our thinking about people because it is based on distortion of facts, and creates a guilt feeling in us that shows through when we meet the person we’ve gossiped about.The conversation is a big part of our psychological environment. Healthy conversation encourage you. It makes you feel like you’re taking a walk in the warm sunshine of a spring day

How to Overcome Fear And Build Confidence

Today mostly fear is psychological, like body infection we can cure psychological infection too. Yes, fear is real and we must recognize it before we conquer it. Fear explains why we still have an economic recession and why millions of people accomplish little and enjoy little.

Action cures fear and the same time indecision, Postponement fertilize it. When we face a tough situation, we stay mired in the mud until we take action. Please remember our brain is like a bank. Every day we deposit thought in our mind bank after some time this deposits grow and become our memory, so in any situation, you can take help from your memory bank and he delivers thought you deposited earlier. So deposit only positive thought in your memory bank.

Successful people specialize in putting positive thought in their memory bank. It is just like what kind of performance would your car deliver if every morning before you left for work, you scooped up a double handful of dirt and put it into your crankcase? Negative thought deposits in your mind affect your mind in the same way , so in any kind of situation concentrate only good part of  the experience and lets the others fade away , and your confidence, that feeling on the top of the world, will zoom upward and you will take a big step forward conquering your fear.

We can overcome fear and build confidence by following these simple steps:

  • 1.    Action cures fear
  • 2    Get a balanced view of the other fellow.
  • 3.    Put positive thoughts in your memory bank
  • 4.    Always be a front seater.

Cure Yourself of Excusitis, The Failure Disease

The reason people fail is because of their negative thought process, called excusitis.

It is like any other disease. It gets worse if not treated on time. The victim begins to give excuses for not doing well. With time it becomes his habit to make excuses. He chooses this state as a permanent state because the thought is now deep in his subconscious mind.

It times to vaccinate yourself against this mind deadening disease but first of all it is very important to understand the forms of excusitis:

  1. Health Excusitis: Millions of people suffer from this disease yet we can come out from it by our right attitude. We can resolve it by avoiding any negative talk and worry about our health
  2. Intellect Excusitis: You have to understand that your negative thinking guides your intelligence which further decides your action too.
  3. Age Excusitis: Age is not important as how you see yourself is what matters.
  4. Luck Excusitis: This can be understood by accepting the Universal law of Cause and Effect. The law states that just because of your particular thought process or behaviour and action, you create specific effect on your life. That effect is your luck!

The Magic Of Thinking Big

According to the author, for success in every aspect of your life, you should strongly believe in yourself.   A strong believer can move mountains and there is nothing magical about it. It is possible only by the power of a positive mindset nothing else. Once you believe that you can do anything, then things begin to happen. Your belief attracts the people and resources which would make you successful.

Most people think that for reaching the top, they should compromise at every step of their life. In reality, you can make your life blissful just by thinking big and by giving a positive response towards any situation instead of just reacting to it.

Successful people have enormous setbacks in their lives but their strong belief in themselves and big thinking makes them different and creates breakthroughs for them.

After self-analysis author found that initiative is the most important key to achieve anything in life which completely depends on the power of your belief.

Our mind is a thought-factory which manufactures countless thoughts in a single day. We can categorize those thoughts in two categories— Mr Triumph and Mr Defeat. Both categories of thoughts are very obedient to us. Mr Triumph guides us with its positive thoughts and gives countless reason that you can do anything. Mr Defeat, on the other hand, has only negative thoughts and can give a thousand reasons why you can’t do something. It’s completely in our hands which category of thoughts we give preference to.

Anyone can acquire the power of belief by following some simple steps in their life:

  1. Focus only successes, not failures.
  2. Remind yourself that you are far better than you think you are.
  3. Finally, believe big as the size of our belief decides the size of our success.

Create Your Most Wonderful Life

Dare to believe in yourself.

Believe that the things you are going to do will work out for you as perfectly as you have imagined them. You must have a clear and compelling vision in your head even before you begin. Visualize your self having reached your goal and already living your dream. Believe in that vision without even a shadow of a doubt. 

A vivid vision and an unshakable belief. Those are the only two ingredients you need to create your most wonderful life!


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